“Whatever is bringing you down, get rid of it. You’ll find that when you’re free your true self comes out” Tina Turner
When I was a young woman, an ever-increasing awareness of my body with all its budding curves overcame me with an urge to explore my sensuality before I even knew what it meant. Those secret parts of my femininity tingled with desire though I had no idea why. When I touched myself, something so beautiful exploded into a universe of erotic possibilities that I know now was orgasm and I was liberated.
Biological desires and emotions of young ladies were taught to be left unexplored less they ‘get us into trouble’.
In my country, young women approaching the age of maturity are not supposed to feel this way. Precisely the opposite occurred because instinctive curiosity cannot be suppressed and always finds an outlet through self-expression. I was driven by a desire to understand my sexuality, to attain the joys of living in the moment with all that pleasure had to offer.
Ironically, erotic, sexual activity is regarded as natural
That is not to say that all women (or men for that matter) are promiscuous. For the Caribbean woman, a marked sense of appreciation for her sensuality rises above that what exists here in the States. She is not measured by rigid physical standards imposed upon by society for beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. Her bodily imperfections are just as celebrated as her physical endowments for they equal the sum of her eroticism.
Sexual discrimination in my country is not skewed as it is here in the U.S.
Jamaican culture understands that men inherently pursue women for sexual fulfillment by nature. Is that such a bad thing? With an air of tolerance, ladies enjoy the freedom of being able to dress as they like without being boxed in by social stigmas. How flattering are the woos of men who find us attractive? Lifestyle in the Caribbean includes a dance of seduction that doesn’t necessarily have to lead to sexual intercourse. As a Hartford, Connecticut escort, this wonderfully liberating spirit runs through my veins.
As a freethinking companion, I relish being celebrated by gentlemen friends
My sensual openness is rooted deep in a Caribbean culture not experienced by most American men . Empathy for the male psyche and its ways coupled with total acceptance of my sexuality always brings out the best in a sensual encounter.
This article is also mentioned on Geisha Diaries.
Erotic, sensual sex has reigned in Jamaica since the Victorian era
You might say it’s commonplace as domestic harmony and extended pleasures co-exist with a sense of acceptance less tolerated here in the Western world. Sensual gratification is accepted in different parts of the Caribbean where polygamous household arrangements are just as recognized as traditional marriages. Husbands, wives, lovers and concubines (here, we refer to them to as companions or escorts) co-exist in ways that are beneficial to everyone. I grew up with this knowledge. I guess you could say that being an ebony escort is in my blood.
A man’s sexual fulfillment is still commonly met by more than one partner
While living in my native Jamaica, I owned and operated a sensual massage establishment and I loved it. My practice combined a Tantra approach and incorporated elements of Nuru massage. My philosophy blended a sense of open mindedness, understanding and dignity in a pleasure-seeking culture where boundaries were honored by parties who understood their roles. Until this day, many ladies are escorts and companions who work from their homes or dedicated establishments. Their practice is second nature as they relish the freedom that comes through arrangements with clients. Here in the States, it’s known as a sugar baby/sugar daddy kind of relationship.
My clients are drawn to the warm, sensual energy that I exude and forever hold in my heart
As a Hartford, Connecticut escort, I maintain the same practice, philosophy and more. An afternoon tryst of pleasure, extended weekend or ongoing affair comes natural to me. As an emotionally giving and sensually generous ebony escort, a full body massage can easily turn into a sensual massage surrounded by intellectual connection before and after. I find that life’s satisfactions are found in many different ways that when combined produce a healing effect. Just like the Jamaican women who play a significant role in men’s lives, I am a passionate companion who harbors generations of innate understanding of my role as a girl friend who quietly recognizes boundaries.
For reasons that elude me, a hectic lifestyle in the States is accepted with all its stress, anxiety and even disconnect in domestic relationships that eat away at passion. I am fortunate to have solid values, never straying from a culture that taught me the value of intimacy and that it is okay for a man’s needs to be gratified by a woman who understands it all.